When you go on a first date with a guy, you are quite tense and, generally, it is quite difficult to find a common bridge to cross the chasm of mutual ignorance. It probably happens quite often to not know how to “break the ice”.
If after much reflection or in a sudden attack of spontaneity, you have decided to go into the sweets jar of paid relationships, because men should not be the only ones to have the exclusive privilege to take a piece of the beauties attracted by the wallet while women not, once you have scrupulously gone through the physical and mental preparation ritual, you find yourself next to the chosen one from your secret fantasies, even more handsome than in the virtual photos, yet your thoughts fly away despite your efforts to disconnect yourself from reality... you must understand that this phenomenon is natural! Every little thing from the outside or one that is deeply implanted in the subconscious can perfidiously catch your attention, regardless of the context.
Almost everyone has sexual habits they prefer to keep private. While going to the escorts or watching porn is encouraged and confessed in certain groups, other behaviours remain secret. Not because they would be legally punishable (at least, not in all countries), but because they have a low popularity. The same cannot be said about their frequency.
Most of the lesbians are pissed off by some preconceived ideas that heterosexuals gain from viewing pornographic movies or distorted interpretations of social “folklore”. That is why some clearer answers are required for a series of questions that the “other camp” or the women interested could pose in this respect: