At the peak of maturity (or perhaps only after a major consumption of alcohol), every single mortal faces the great existential question “To be or not to be... married?”, to which, unlike a few decades and mentalities ago, they can give at least two “valid” answers.
Love & SEX
Age difference between partners was and unfortunately still is a controversial subject. “Unfortunately” because the problems of a couple should normally remain only within the couple... and no one else.
However, “people’s voice only the earth could stop” and thus, there will always be annoying grumblers who, even they are not affected by anything in their obtuse existence (by the phenomenon in question), they will ask irritated, ironically and amazed, how can a man be with a woman who might be his mother in other circumstances? Well, relationships of this kind exist and they even work very well, sometimes much better than those of same-age partners. And, ironically, even without the consent of these professional “critics”!
Some women would rather see their man get hit by a car than wandering in other beddings. Others consider indulgence towards masculine escapades as a necessary evil and accept to please their “stallion” to keep him.
For a third category (it’s true, a minority), this horror scene with the love of their lives “pumping” intensely to the satisfaction of some ladies represent an undisguised delight. No, it is not a minority under psychiatric treatment, it’s about a “species” of ladies allowing their partners to look beyond the fence and even jump over it.
Whether it comes after a long and agonizing dysfunctional relationship, needlessly prolonged, whether it naturally crowns the female partner's affair with the dentist (or who knows which other man), the breakup is an unpleasant and difficult to manage job.
Fantasies, or the way to compensate for the lack of a desirable reality, are specific to anyone. Even the monogamous housewives imagine themselves as divas satisfied in-group, while experienced ladies are longing for the position of the missionary... each of them is dreaming about what they do not have or have lost over time.
At some point, everybody wants, besides “normal” sex, to afford a threesome or a vanguard sex act, in front of an audience (be it only one spectator).
What do you do when you see a woman you feel attracted to?
You avoid looking at her or getting close to her?
You tell her a phrase that you memorized from the Internet?
You think for minutes on end, trying in vain to intuit what would be more appropriate to start the conversation with?
How should you proceed?