Whether it comes after a long and agonizing dysfunctional relationship, needlessly prolonged, whether it naturally crowns the female partner's affair with the dentist (or who knows which other man), the breakup is an unpleasant and difficult to manage job.
Love & SEX
Fantasies, or the way to compensate for the lack of a desirable reality, are specific to anyone. Even the monogamous housewives imagine themselves as divas satisfied in-group, while experienced ladies are longing for the position of the missionary... each of them is dreaming about what they do not have or have lost over time.
At some point, everybody wants, besides “normal” sex, to afford a threesome or a vanguard sex act, in front of an audience (be it only one spectator).
What do you do when you see a woman you feel attracted to?
You avoid looking at her or getting close to her?
You tell her a phrase that you memorized from the Internet?
You think for minutes on end, trying in vain to intuit what would be more appropriate to start the conversation with?
How should you proceed?
Maybe it already happened to you! You take a “tour” on an online dating site and suddenly you notice an interesting feminine presence. You have no idea who she is, but you're a man and it is natural to be pleased even by the still image of an unknown woman. That's male’s nature... more “visual”.
From this moment, an unique question is born. How to approach her?
Have you ever thought that male protagonists bear a burden of which they are aware and responsible ever since they were little children? Not because they would want this at all costs... because who, nowadays, would yearn for countless responsibilities, given that the trend reveals much quieter living choices, with a comforting “low profile” or even “hanging” in many ways on a female partner? The truth is that, besides the genetic inheritance (you know, the story with chromosomes, specific hormones, etc.), there is also a deeply rooted conception that the male “must” be the head of the family, the engine of society and, last but not least, the symbol of struggle, regardless of purpose.
Not only men are going through what is called middle-age crisis, but also women. Just as for the latter ones, the effects are much more obvious.